Stella

Stella (she/her) is a rope bottom who’s been getting tied up since 2015 and has formed lots of opinions on tying and being tied. She runs the RBU:Munch in North Seattle with Drea, a monthly social event for rope bottoms and switches since June 2021. She teaches on a volunteer basis with the Bight & Bind Collective and co-wrote their progressive curriculum series. When teaching, her focus is mainly on education for rope bottoms or “those being tied” and developing risk-informed practices for all people doing rope. Stella is also the creator and host of the monthly-ish Speed Tying Social, formerly known as Speed Date Your Structures, at Subspace Seattle.

My Socials:

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Upcoming Events

March 15 @ 11:00 am - 2:00 pm
Sunday, 15-Mar-2026
11:00 am-02:00 pm
This 3-part series is designed for those who feel confident with single/double columns and are ready for more complexity. Classes will focus on functional rather than...
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March 22 @ 12:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Sunday, 22-Mar-2026
12:00 pm-03:00 pm
Tops, bottoms, and switches will get hands-on rope practice through bite-sized sessions with each other. There is no “dating” here, but you will meet, tie, and...
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March 27 @ 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Friday, 27-Mar-2026
06:00 pm-08:00 pm
RBU is a munch for anyone who receives rope. This is an event to meet and find peer support among others who are tied. It’s also...
Retreat Cafe, 6900 East Green Lake Way N
April 4 @ 11:00 am - 1:00 pm
Saturday, 04-Apr-2026
11:00 am-01:00 pm
How do you move your partner without verbal commands? How do you create flow from one position to the next? This class will teach partners how...
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April 19 @ 11:00 am - 2:00 pm
Sunday, 19-Apr-2026
11:00 am-02:00 pm
This 3-part series is designed for those who feel confident with single/double columns and are ready for more complexity. Classes will focus on functional rather than...
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April 26 @ 12:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Sunday, 26-Apr-2026
12:00 pm-03:00 pm
Tops, bottoms, and switches will get hands-on rope practice through bite-sized sessions with each other. There is no “dating” here, but you will meet, tie, and...
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April 28 @ 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Tuesday, 28-Apr-2026
06:00 pm-08:00 pm
RBU is a munch for anyone who receives rope. This is an event to meet and find peer support among others who are tied. It’s also...
Retreat Cafe, 6900 East Green Lake Way N
May 17 @ 11:00 am - 2:00 pm
Sunday, 17-May-2026
11:00 am-02:00 pm
This 3-part series is designed for those who feel confident with single/double columns and are ready for more complexity. Classes will focus on functional rather than...
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