Stella
Stella (she/her) is a rope bottom who’s been getting tied up since 2015 and has formed lots of opinions on tying and being tied. She runs the RBU:Munch in North Seattle with Drea, a monthly social event for rope bottoms and switches since June 2021. She teaches on a volunteer basis with the Bight & Bind Collective and co-wrote their progressive curriculum series. When teaching, her focus is mainly on education for rope bottoms or "those being tied" and developing risk-informed practices for all people doing rope. Stella is also the creator and host of the monthly-ish Speed Tying Social, formerly known as Speed Date Your Structures, at Subspace Seattle.
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Events from this Organizer
Sunday, 21-Jun-2026
12:00 pm-03:00 pm
Tops, bottoms, and switches will get hands-on rope practice through bite-sized sessions with each other. There is no “dating” here, but you will meet, tie, and...
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Friday, 26-Jun-2026
06:30 pm-08:30 pm
RBU is a munch for anyone who receives rope. This is an event to meet and find peer support among others who are tied. It’s also...
Retreat Cafe, 6900 East Green Lake Way N
Tuesday, 28-Jul-2026
06:30 pm-08:30 pm
RBU is a munch for anyone who receives rope. This is an event to meet and find peer support among others who are tied. It’s also...
Retreat Cafe, 6900 East Green Lake Way N
Saturday, 15-Aug-2026
03:00 pm-05:30 pm
Tops, bottoms, and switches will get hands-on rope practice through bite-sized sessions with each other. There is no “dating” here, but you will meet, tie, and...
No Venue Found



